The first time I actually saw someone out in public with one of those “Selfie” sticks (I don’t know what they are actually called if anything, but I am going to go with “Hey look at am I am a douche bag”) you know those things which are made for people to mount their phones on to make it easier to take pictures of themselves the first thought which popped into my head was this is the downfall of civilization. This right here is what is wrong with the world, and the reason why we are going to go the way of Rome. If I had any musical talent, like Nero I would be the one playing the music while it all burns behind me.
Yes maybe I am being overly dramatic.
Before I venture further into the reasons why I think Selfies are the downfall of us all I ave to first state that the very fact we actually have to give it a special name is moronic. It is a self-portrait, so let us not act as if the notion of one taking a portrait of themselves has never existed prior to the invention of the cell phone. Pretty since as long as man has had the ability to produce some form of image people have been taking “Selfies.” Rembrandt had been rocking the Selfie old school style.
Yeah I know smartphones with cameras make it more convenient for the everyday person to take spontaneous photos of themselves at any given moment. But still can we not act as if this is some sort of new concept that never existed before?
Now I half-jokingly refer to myself as being a Narcissist with a superiority complex. I am someone who believes that a certain amount of selfishness is a natural survival instinct, and makes perfectly logical sense, and is not something someone should be ashamed of. I am not someone who can be shamed into humbleness. And I think that the Selfie is the epidemy of self-indulgence, self-gratification, and self-obsession.
If is as if because someone does not have pauperize following them around everywhere they go, they feel the need to act as their own paparazzi but get a clue if you have to do it yourself it is because no one actually cares what you are doing every minute of your life.
This is not exactly a Selfie but it is part of of that same sort of culture. There was this story on the news about this YouTube video this woman put up of her telling her husband that she was pregnant, after they had been trying to have a child for 17 years and have had miscarriages and a still birth. (Why do I know this intimate personal information about the “private” life of strangers” ) So when she found out she was with child again she took a video and uploaded on the internet of her telling her husband and his reaction. Now most people think isn’t that touching and moving, and sweet, but I think, how in such a sacred moment could your very first thought be to set it up to make into a video to upload? It is as if everyone wants to make themselves the star of their own reality TV show.
I am a photographer, and I get that it is cool to want to take photos of really moments and experiences but there are moments in which I have intentionally chosen to leave my camera behind because I wanted to allow myself to simply just experience the moment, to feel it with all of my senses, to truly live it, and not to simply be worried about the next shot, or what would look cool. Because I think that once you have the camera it does stand between you and the moment, it makes you not the active participation, but an objective observer.
With the growing trend of people taking Selfies of themselves engaged in various monumental, one in a life time, amazing experiences like skydiving, running with the bulls, mountain climbing, whatever, or taking Selfies during extremely intimate moments like the Selfies right after sex thing that was popular for a while, the people become so obsessed with simply wanting to have the photo of themselves to show off to all their Facebook friends, that they are not truly living the moment to its full potential they care more about the bragging rights and trying to prove how awesome and cool they are then about the experience itself.